I went and fired up the circuit and took some scope shots. The first shot is with no load, the nominal 12V was 18.1V. Loaded with a 220K it became 13.3V, 33K was 12.9V, 470R was 12.02 and 150R 10.9V
This shot was loaded with 470R note the leading ringing was gone.
Conclusion there is some ringing unloaded at the front edge this has enough energy to raise the voltage by a few volts unloaded. With a 1mA load voltage is less than 13V and with 80mA ~ 11V.
I am comfortable that the 2.5mA minimum of the FOD3182 opto will keep it well under control and around 12.5V. The UCC3080 driver seems well suited in this app.
If at first you dont succeed, I suggest you avoid sky diving.... Cheers Mike